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Analogous words: *tie, bind2 Oblige, accommodate, favor mean to do a service or courtesy.To oblige a person is to make him indebted by doing something that is pleasing to him{
Punch was always anxious to oblige everybody— Kipling
}{most hotels . . . will oblige if on a particular occasion you wish your meal served at a special time— Roetter
}It is commonly used as a conventional acknowledgment of small courtesies or offices{there is an oversight . . . which I shall be much obliged to you to correct— Macaulay
}Accommodate, when it is used of services, is often interchangeable with oblige. Sometimes, especially in the participial adjective, it implies gracious compliance{an accommodating host
}or it may connote the intent to be of assistance{I was willing to accommodate you by undertaking to sell the horse— George Eliot
}But accommodate often suggests a business transaction rather than an act of kindness, and an obligation to pay or repay. In such use it usually implies a loan of money or acceptance as a paying guest (see also CONTAIN){the bank accommodated him with a short-term loan
}{the hotel could not accommodate the crowd
}To favor, by contrast, is to render an attention or a service out of goodwill and commonly without im-posing an obligation on, or expecting a return from, the person favored{luck favored him in all his enterprises
}{it was possible for one favored by the accidents of pigmentation to pass surreptitiously outside the narrow confines set by the prevailing race conceptions— Handlin)Sometimes there is a suggestion of gratuitousness or a patronizing character in the action (favor a friend with advice){the stupidity with which he was favored by nature— Austen
}Analogous words: gratify, *please: *benefit, profit, avail: *help, aid, assist: *support, uphold, backAntonyms: disobligeContrasted words: *inconvenience, incommode, discommode, trouble
New Dictionary of Synonyms. 2014.